much as I want chandlergate to be over, there’s still things that need to be said.
I don’t know how to express to people that this wasn’t about firebolting lying about their gender or their sex. It’s about a web of lies and manipulation that has permanently scarred the lives of too many decent people who came to the internet looking for a friend.
This isn’t just speculation. This is twenty or more people putting together everything they were told over the course of ten years. This is about them having taking information that was sacred and personal and sharing it with others for their sake alone. This is about any good memories we have being tainted by the fact that the person we were talking to doesn’t exist.